Truth! Add trans* into the statement and it would be perfect.
Truth! Add trans* into the statement and it would be perfect.
This is my girlfriend and myself. I’m ftm and she is mtf. We’re Oliver and Dezmin. It’s nice to meet you.
Perfect couple.
CUTE
Adorable
Homosexuality is a sin. Homosexuals are doomed to spend eternity in hell. If they wanted to change, they could be healed of their evil ways. If they would turn away from temptation, they could be normal again. If only they would try and try harder, if it doesn’t work. These are all the things I said to my son Bobby when I found out he was gay. When he told me he was homosexual, my world fell apart. I did everything I could to cure him of his sickness.
8 months ago, my son, jumped off a bridge and killed himself. I deeply regret my lack of knowledge about gay and lesbian people. I see that everything I was taught and told was bigotry and dehumanizing slander. If I had investigated, beyond what I was told, if I had just, listened to my son, when he poured my heart out to me, I would not be standing here today with you, filled with regrets.
I believe that God was pleased with Bobby’s kind and loving spirit. In God’s eyes, kindness and love are what it’s all about. I didn’t know that each time that I echoed eternal damnation for gay people, each time I referred to Bobby as sick and perverted and a danger to our children, his self-esteem, his sense of worth, were being destroyed, and finally, his spirit broke beyond repair.
It was not God’s will that Bobby climbed over the side of a freeway overpass and jumped directly into the path of an 18-wheel truck which killed him instantly. Bobby’s death was the direct result of his parents’ ignorance and fear of the word ‘gay’.
He wanted to be a writer. His hopes and dreams should not have been taken from him, but they were. There are children, like Bobby, sitting in your congregations, unknown to you, they will be listening, as you echo “Amen”, and that will soon silence their prayers. Their prayers to God for understanding, and acceptance, and for your love. But your hatred, and fear, and ignorance of the word ‘gay’ will silence those prayers.
So, before you echo “Amen” in your home and place of worship - Think! Think and remember, a child is listening.
To all the Bobby’s and Jane’s out there, I say these words to you as I would with my own precious children. Please don’t give up hope on life, or yourselves. You’re very special to me. I’m working very hard to make this world a better and safer place for you to live in. Promise me you’ll keep trying. Bobby gave up on love, I hope you won’t. You are always in my thoughts.
~Mary Griffith
This is a video I made in response to the video made by the reportedly 14-year-old Girl Scout, parents and Scout alumni to boycott Girl Scout cookies because Girl Scouts has accepted transgender girls. I was a Girl Scout!
Please buy more Girl Scout cookies and help support them.
Please pass this video around I think it is an important message.GSUSA-Don’t Boycott Girl Scout Cookies-Support GSUSA-Buck Angel (by buckangelent)
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If you are a transgender person in Sweden today looking to legally change your gender, in the 21st century you are still forced to undergo surgery that will render you permanently infertile and forever unable to have children. This barbaric practice of forced sterilizations has to stop!
The majority of the Swedish parliament is in favor of modifying this law - but up until now Prime Minister Fredrik Reinfeldt has let a small conservative party block this long awaited reform.
Let’s make sure the Prime Minister knows that the majority of Sweden, and Europe - wants to see Sweden on the right side of history - by eliminating this archaic practice.
Please take one minute to sign this urgent letter to the Prime Minister of Sweden asking him to stop playing politics with the fundamental human rights of Swedish citizens. Our friends at RFSL, the Swedish LGBT Federation, will deliver your signatures directly to the Prime Minister’s office.
After appearing on MTV’s Reality Show “True Life,” Domaine Javier - a transgender woman - was expelled from her nursing program at California Baptist University (CBU) in Riverside. The 24-year-old student revealed on the show that she is biologically male, inciting a major roadblock in her career path.
The private university claims that Javier was expelled for “committing or attempting to engage in fraud, or concealing identity” and for presenting false or misleading information in university judicial processes, reports The Press-Enterprise. Javier, who has identified herself as a female since she was a toddler, did so on her CBU application form.
“I didn’t do anything wrong,” said Javier. “They said, ‘On your application form you put ‘female.’ And I was like, ‘Yeah, that’s how I see myself.’”
The expulsion became effective on August 30, just one week before Javier was slated to begin the nursing program. She had recently transferred to CBU from Riverside City College (RCC). “Devastated” by her expulsion, Javier returned to RCC but cannot enter the nursing program until next fall. “This totally ruined my career path,” she said. “I’ve been trying to finish as soon as possible.” Her graduation will be delayed by at least one year.
Mark Wood, an attorney with San Francisco-based Transgender Law Center, says that, although California law prohibits employment, housing, government, insurance and other types of discrimination based upon gender identity, private universities are generally not covered by the discrimination law.
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Fraud my ass. Essentialist binary sex is the fraud.
So let’s find all the people in charge of this motion and throw them into a spiked pit where they will lose all of their lives
Ridiculous. Male students can rape female students and are allowed to stay in classes with only minor disciplinary actions taken (google it, there’s more than one case)… but this? THIS is RIDICULOUS.
Girl #1-Being transgender is a choice.
Me- No, it's not.
Girl #2- How do you know?
Me- I know people who are trans, and it definitely is not a choice.
Girl #1- Okay, well being gay or lesbian is definitely a choice.
Me- No, it really is not.
Girl #2- I think it's a choice.
Me- I'm gay, and I can promise you that I am not this way by choice.
Both Girls- *silence*
[image description: photo of We’Wha, the person described below.]
LGBTQ* People You Should Know
We’Wha (1849–1896)
* Zuni Native American
* Lhamana (Two-Spirit)
* Accomplished weaver and potter
* Spent six months in Washington D.C. with anthropologist Matilda Coxe Stevenson
—> During this time, We’Wha met President Grover Cleveland
—> President Cleveland never knew We’Wha was Two-Spirit
* Will Roscoe focused on the life of We’Wha in his book The Zuni Man-Woman (1991).
I’ve always found the Native American cultures that had some form of two-spirit gender identity to be all the more interesting. I love learning about native peoples…and then I fel ashamed that the European settlers did what they did to them. So many cultures lost for no good reason. Granted, I guess the whole smallpox thing would have happened even if the Europeans had treated the natives as they should have, but that’s beside the point.
I can understand this. I’m not trans, but I am gay and even though I’ve said I want to adopt, there’s a part of me that want to have a genetically related child. I’m the last of my line and it’s something I can’t seem to forget. And even if I chose to adopt ultimately, I would be crushed if I found out I was unable to father a child biologically.
On “Ladies”, “Gentlemen” and other gendered terms.
I absolutely agree with this. Some people may say it is over-sensitive, but really gendered terms don’t add anything to the dining/shopping/service experience and really bother a variety of people. I’ve heard of butch lesbians getting frustrated being called “sir”, transgender men getting upset being called “ma’am”, and cis women being offended at the term “ladies”. Maybe it’s best to just drop these terms from our vocabulary unless we know a person and their preferred gendered terms (and even “ladies” or “girls” to address grown women altogether).
I definitely think there are cases where this is over-reaching. I think some people get their feelings hurt entirely too easily. That said, I do agree with certain points of this. I know personally, if I can’t 150% tell the gender of someone or think that maybe they might be in a state of transition that leaves others wondering, I don’t use gender pronouns! It’s not that hard.
I’m a cis-gendered homo guy that doesn’t have the deepest voice in the world. In person, I’ve never had anyone call me ma’am; I’m obviously a guy. But on the phone or on drive-thru speakers, it happens at least a couple times a month. When it does, my voice drops an octave without any conscious effort. My friends laugh cause they know it’s a sensitive spot for me (I know that sounds weird, but we’re really more like siblings, so it makes sense), but it is embarrassing.
All that said, I can totally get behind this.