The title pretty much sums it up; these are the random musings of a free-spirited, modified, Gemini cub guy.
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Homosexuality is a sin. Homosexuals are doomed to spend eternity in hell. If they wanted to change, they could be healed of their evil ways. If they would turn away from temptation, they could be normal again. If only they would try and try harder, if it doesn’t work. These are all the things I said to my son Bobby when I found out he was gay. When he told me he was homosexual, my world fell apart. I did everything I could to cure him of his sickness.

8 months ago, my son, jumped off a bridge and killed himself. I deeply regret my lack of knowledge about gay and lesbian people. I see that everything I was taught and told was bigotry and dehumanizing slander. If I had investigated, beyond what I was told, if I had just, listened to my son, when he poured my heart out to me, I would not be standing here today with you, filled with regrets.

I believe that God was pleased with Bobby’s kind and loving spirit. In God’s eyes, kindness and love are what it’s all about. I didn’t know that each time that I echoed eternal damnation for gay people, each time I referred to Bobby as sick and perverted and a danger to our children, his self-esteem, his sense of worth, were being destroyed, and finally, his spirit broke beyond repair.

It was not God’s will that Bobby climbed over the side of a freeway overpass and jumped directly into the path of an 18-wheel truck which killed him instantly. Bobby’s death was the direct result of his parents’ ignorance and fear of the word ‘gay’.

He wanted to be a writer. His hopes and dreams should not have been taken from him, but they were. There are children, like Bobby, sitting in your congregations, unknown to you, they will be listening, as you echo “Amen”, and that will soon silence their prayers. Their prayers to God for understanding, and acceptance, and for your love. But your hatred, and fear, and ignorance of the word ‘gay’ will silence those prayers.

So, before you echo “Amen” in your home and place of worship - Think! Think and remember, a child is listening.

To all the Bobby’s and Jane’s out there, I say these words to you as I would with my own precious children. Please don’t give up hope on life, or yourselves. You’re very special to me. I’m working very hard to make this world a better and safer place for you to live in. Promise me you’ll keep trying. Bobby gave up on love, I hope you won’t. You are always in my thoughts.

~Mary Griffith

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Reblogged from fuckyeahstretchedears  197 notes

fuckyeahstretchedears:

buckangel:

This is a video I made in response to the video made by the reportedly 14-year-old Girl Scout, parents and Scout alumni to boycott Girl Scout cookies because Girl Scouts has accepted transgender girls. I was a Girl Scout!
Please buy more Girl Scout cookies and help support them.
Please pass this video around I think it is an important message.

GSUSA-Don’t Boycott Girl Scout Cookies-Support GSUSA-Buck Angel (by buckangelent)

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Reblogged from christinabaker  16 notes
  • Girl #1-Being transgender is a choice.

  • Me- No, it's not.

  • Girl #2- How do you know?

  • Me- I know people who are trans, and it definitely is not a choice.

  • Girl #1- Okay, well being gay or lesbian is definitely a choice.

  • Me- No, it really is not.

  • Girl #2- I think it's a choice.

  • Me- I'm gay, and I can promise you that I am not this way by choice.

  • Both Girls- *silence*

Reblogged from fyeahqueervintage  123 notes
fyeahqueervintage:

[image description: photo of We’Wha, the person described below.]
knowhomo:

LGBTQ* People You Should Know
We’Wha (1849–1896)
* Zuni Native American
* Lhamana (Two-Spirit)
* Accomplished weaver and potter
* Spent six months in Washington D.C. with anthropologist Matilda Coxe Stevenson
—> During this time, We’Wha met President Grover Cleveland
—> President Cleveland never knew We’Wha was Two-Spirit
* Will Roscoe focused on the life of We’Wha in his book  The Zuni Man-Woman (1991).



I’ve always found the Native American cultures that had some form of two-spirit gender identity to be all the more interesting.  I love learning about native peoples…and then I fel ashamed that the European settlers did what they did to them.  So many cultures lost for no good reason.  Granted, I guess the whole smallpox thing would have happened even if the Europeans had treated the natives as they should have, but that’s beside the point.

fyeahqueervintage:

[image description: photo of We’Wha, the person described below.]

knowhomo:

LGBTQ* People You Should Know

We’Wha (1849–1896)

* Zuni Native American

* Lhamana (Two-Spirit)

* Accomplished weaver and potter

* Spent six months in Washington D.C. with anthropologist Matilda Coxe Stevenson

—> During this time, We’Wha met President Grover Cleveland

—> President Cleveland never knew We’Wha was Two-Spirit

* Will Roscoe focused on the life of We’Wha in his book  The Zuni Man-Woman (1991).


I’ve always found the Native American cultures that had some form of two-spirit gender identity to be all the more interesting.  I love learning about native peoples…and then I fel ashamed that the European settlers did what they did to them.  So many cultures lost for no good reason.  Granted, I guess the whole smallpox thing would have happened even if the Europeans had treated the natives as they should have, but that’s beside the point.

Reblogged from queersecrets  21 notes
I can understand this. I’m not trans, but I am gay and even though I’ve said I want to adopt, there’s a part of me that want to have a genetically related child.  I’m the last of my line and it’s something I can’t seem to forget.  And even if I chose to adopt ultimately, I would be crushed if I found out I was unable to father a child biologically.

I can understand this. I’m not trans, but I am gay and even though I’ve said I want to adopt, there’s a part of me that want to have a genetically related child.  I’m the last of my line and it’s something I can’t seem to forget.  And even if I chose to adopt ultimately, I would be crushed if I found out I was unable to father a child biologically.

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artoftransliness:

On “Ladies”, “Gentlemen” and other gendered terms.

I absolutely agree with this. Some people may say it is over-sensitive, but really gendered terms don’t add anything to the dining/shopping/service experience and really bother a variety of people. I’ve heard of butch lesbians getting frustrated being called “sir”, transgender men getting upset being called “ma’am”, and cis women being offended at the term “ladies”. Maybe it’s best to just drop these terms from our vocabulary unless we know a person and their preferred gendered terms (and even “ladies” or “girls” to address grown women altogether).

I definitely think there are cases where this is over-reaching.  I think some people get their feelings hurt entirely too easily.  That said, I do agree with certain points of this.  I know personally, if I can’t 150% tell the gender of someone or think that maybe they might be in a state of transition that leaves others wondering, I don’t use gender pronouns! It’s not that hard. 

I’m a cis-gendered homo guy that doesn’t have the deepest voice in the world. In person, I’ve never had anyone call me ma’am; I’m obviously a guy. But on the phone or on drive-thru speakers, it happens at least a couple times a month.  When it does, my voice drops an octave without any conscious effort.  My friends laugh cause they know it’s a sensitive spot for me (I know that sounds weird, but we’re really more like siblings, so it makes sense), but it is embarrassing. 

All that said, I can totally get behind this.